March 2012
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“If you openly express your feelings of grief, misinformed friends may advise you...”
– http://griefwords.com/index.cgi?action=page&page=articles%2Fjourney.html&site_id=268
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“Recognizing depression in grief
Bereavement is not linear. It takes multiple...”
– http://www.health.harvard.edu/blog/can-grief-morph-into-depression-201203214511
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March 19, 2012
You are still gone, yet not...
Strange Fires: In memory of Chris Reimer →
strangefire:
I really want to share this story with you, it seems appropriate now. I met Chris Reimer last summer when I was still playing 2nd guitar in Gauntlet Hair and we did an extensive east coast tour with the Dodos. Chris was touring with The Dodos as a semi-permanent 2nd guitar player and none…
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From the years when we always had the same haircut
Frank Davey on Grief
“Home” of course, is not a place; it is a context constituted by ties and expectations and shared obligations and projects. A singled person does not make a home. All those things that constitute a home also contribute to our inner understandings of who we are. Our identities shift and evolve around the things we do with others. When a close friend and collaborator dies, the things...
WatchThe Dodos on Jimmy Fallon
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…and I wonder which of us sister or brother is the bramble and which the supporting tree that may eventually die of the burden of bearing the other. So it is to be human and conscious and making art so it is so it is—we go on being there for one another or our absences or our needs.
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WatchMogwai song for you.
our last visit
October 2011
i did this for you because i love you
but i never fucking wanted to have to do this for you
love is all
You and Ed
Two old souls, reunited, I think. You must have been carousing buddies in previous lifetimes.
Bad message
Hatching your first and only child
Grandma
Last week she said, “I’m just so glad I got to know him!”
Will I ever forgive myself
For not coming home at Christmas?
By the same token, how could I have known that it would be your last Christmas?
your car
your windowsill
your window
everything keeps coming back to trees and birds.
is that real, or is that the messages i want to see?
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Daily Tip
If you keep all your photos and other media organized according to who is in it, you won’t have to take time doing it when the person dies suddenly.
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